7/4/11

Ways to move past your dead relationship

By Kelly Walsh


After the relationship ends, you might be anxious about wanting your ex to get back together. You realize how big a part your ex played in your life when you have gone through a really bad breakup. If you want to get back your ex, here are some steps you can follow in order to make that spark happen again.

Prove to your ex that you have have fun with him or her. Your ex may be missing some of the same things you used to do together, as well. If your ex sees you having fun without them, it may remind them why they wanted to spend time with you in the first place! To find something fun to do, you need to get out of the house. A simple shopping excursion can be enough to cheer you up and remind you of your better qualities.

Another thing to remember is that you two will to settle the arguments that made you break up to start with. Before attempting to get your ex back, make sure that is something you really desire. If you desire long term devotion, it is best to make a new start. This will ensure that the problem won't reoccur.

Your physical appearance may be more of a challenge to deal with, but it is important to devote the time that it takes to look your best. Have you let yourself go? Although your relationship is not based solely on looks, it can make you both feel good to look your best as you spend time together!

Most people will agree they will not want to spend time with someone who can't love themselves. You should spend some time with yourself, introspecting, and re-discovering why you are great to be around. If you can consistently show them that you can address what broke the relationship apart in the first place, then you will eventually re-earn their trust.




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