7/18/11

What To Say When You Flirt with Women

By Farrera Warrenton


Trying to find that perfect girl to date is a lot easier said than done. One way of increasing your chances of success of getting the phone number of a woman you like is by knowing how to flirt with woman the right way. Learning to say the right things is not always easy and getting nervous when talking women is normal and you must learn how to overcome that. Women are like predators in the sense that they can sense fear and the fear equates into insecurity which is vey unattractive to women.

Using really bad pick up lines can actually decrease your chances with all women. If you use a typical pick up line with a woman at the bar or office and it comes across very offensive or insincere then girls are very likely to tell all of their friends what you said. This will make them form a very negative opinion of you and your likelihood of getting a date with any of them very low. This way you will not stand a chance.

If you know just how to flirt with women then you getting them to actually go to dinner with you will be easy. This is because that person that knows what to say knows just how to make a woman feel special and important. Woman feed off of this and they will tell their friends what a great guy you are and they might even want to date you also. If you are in the market to finding the woman of your dreams then being able to score multiple dates with multiple women increases your chances of successfully finder "Ms. Right". All you have to do is figure out what makes her tick and learn how to feed off of that and tell her exactly what she wants to hear.

Landing the right man is hard enough and if they talk good about you to all their friends then they might try to steal you away. That's how women think and you can use that to your advantage.

The biggest advantage to this technique is that it works even if the girl you make laugh already has a man or is married. If she like you enough and thinks you are funny enough then she most likely has some friends that are not already taken and she will want you to meet them.

A rule you must always follow no matter what flirting technique you us is that you must semi-personal and very sincere in whatever you say. If you use humor then you will want to keep it as clean as possible until you build a stronger report with her. Saying inappropriate things is a sure fire way to turn her off quickly and not get much of a positive response from her anytime in the near future. As for being truthful and sincere, if you say a compliment make sure you are actually complimenting her and not just say something you think she want to hear. She will see right through this and if you do talk about something about her that is unique then she will feel special and once you do that then you really have your foot in the door. This will make her respond to you in a much more positive way and not make her dislike you which should never be your intentions in the first place.

Never take for granted that displaying good manners is a very effective way of flirting with women. This is because most men always forget their manners and not always as polite as they should be. Being that this is uncommon is a good way to stand out from the crowd and gain her respect and admiration. Once you have this you can then almost anything else you say is going to be golden.




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