8/3/11

Why Blackmailing Is Not Good

By Leo Noels


So your girlfriend broke up with you saying that she wants to be by herself. She said that she wants to seek out more about herself, and that means, she may need to focus on private improvements, without the hassle of considering another person to deal with.

But she did this very quickly, which made you doubt that she may be lying. Sadly, you realize that she really did. You found out that she broke up with you because she found another person to love.

The first thing that comes into your mind is how mad you are with your girl. You want to take revenge by hurting her the same way that she has injured you. Conveniently, during times like this, you are given the moment to go back into the relationship and review the things that you shared with one another. Then you take a secret that only you know about your ex. Automatically, you want to use that tiny detail, in order to black mail her, back into your arms

Black mailing someone who just broke up with you is clearly not the best thing to do. Not that did not already know that. Sometimes, it is but tough to control your emotions especially if it gets the best of you. Feeling angry can make you do stupid things like this and can make you put in logic into every illogical action.

You might be reading this to check if some relationship advices would support the decision that you are about to make. That is when you find out that no credible guide would want you to make you make a fool about yourself. Black mailing is the ultimate, death sentence crime, of every relationship.

Instead of making your girlfriend come back to you, she will only see more reasons to feel disgusted with your guts, that she may even find logic with calling the police just to keep you away. See!




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