Many blokes end up in this position wondering what happened with the relationship and why their wives or girlfriends suddenly started cheating on them. You can wonder for a considerable time and yet not hit upon the proper reason for her cheating.
It is possible that it was nothing to do with you and that the relationship was just not meant to be, it just had to end this way. Perhaps, it had something to do with the way that you behaved, which she didn't like and she ended up cheating on you. There might be thousands of reasons for her cheating on you. First question to ask yourself is - was it a standard romantic assignation or a friends with benefits relationship? If it's a casual thing, then you need to push on. There is nothing you can do about it and moping around won't help. You knew what the deal was when you joined up. If it's a romantic thing, then please keep reading.
It's possible the relationship was getting mundane and one-dimensional. Women like a bit of excitement in the relationship. After one or two months, some relationships get stale with partners having nothing new to say to each other. You might have been very good to her, but if a lady is bored, she is likely to look around for something more fascinating to fill her evenings and her life. Therefore she could have cheated on you as a transient diversion and she could come back to you after this short fling.
On the other hand, it's feasible that she's fed up of the current situation and wants to have a total break and change of relationship. You could have had one or two fights or difference of opinion. With the passage of time, she might have stopped liking you and found that you both didn't have much in common. This could have her watching out for someone else. Perhaps, she did not wish to hurt you and started secretly cheating on you on the side.
It could also be that she was not pleased with what you were willing to give in the relationship. She could have found a more attractive partner, whom she felt really attracted to. It is really tough to go into anyone's mind, and even more difficult to read a woman's mind. A man can never really know know what a girl wants. You might be thinking that she is very happy in your company, but all the time she could have remained sad and unsatisfied with the relationship and was just waiting for a chance to break it off.
Some women aren't honest enough or bold enough to break off a relationship, which they find uninteresting. This leads them to cheat behind their partner's back. It's all an issue of being honest about the way you feel about your other half. There are some women who can never be steadfast to anybody. That's the way they are and you have got to accept it.
It is possible that it was nothing to do with you and that the relationship was just not meant to be, it just had to end this way. Perhaps, it had something to do with the way that you behaved, which she didn't like and she ended up cheating on you. There might be thousands of reasons for her cheating on you. First question to ask yourself is - was it a standard romantic assignation or a friends with benefits relationship? If it's a casual thing, then you need to push on. There is nothing you can do about it and moping around won't help. You knew what the deal was when you joined up. If it's a romantic thing, then please keep reading.
It's possible the relationship was getting mundane and one-dimensional. Women like a bit of excitement in the relationship. After one or two months, some relationships get stale with partners having nothing new to say to each other. You might have been very good to her, but if a lady is bored, she is likely to look around for something more fascinating to fill her evenings and her life. Therefore she could have cheated on you as a transient diversion and she could come back to you after this short fling.
On the other hand, it's feasible that she's fed up of the current situation and wants to have a total break and change of relationship. You could have had one or two fights or difference of opinion. With the passage of time, she might have stopped liking you and found that you both didn't have much in common. This could have her watching out for someone else. Perhaps, she did not wish to hurt you and started secretly cheating on you on the side.
It could also be that she was not pleased with what you were willing to give in the relationship. She could have found a more attractive partner, whom she felt really attracted to. It is really tough to go into anyone's mind, and even more difficult to read a woman's mind. A man can never really know know what a girl wants. You might be thinking that she is very happy in your company, but all the time she could have remained sad and unsatisfied with the relationship and was just waiting for a chance to break it off.
Some women aren't honest enough or bold enough to break off a relationship, which they find uninteresting. This leads them to cheat behind their partner's back. It's all an issue of being honest about the way you feel about your other half. There are some women who can never be steadfast to anybody. That's the way they are and you have got to accept it.
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