9/28/11

Is He Cheating? - Finding The Answer

By Joe Maldonado


Worried whether your relationship is as smooth as it used to be and facing the question, "is he cheating"? Remember that you are not alone in this world who is facing this challenge. There are thousands of women all over the world who are troubled by the question. However, don't be like others and don't stay nave to the situation. Find out the truth and start taking steps which can help you to save your relationship. However, before everything, you need to find out whether he is cheating or not. In order to do so, you need to find out whether your man is showing the following signs or not:

- Is he showing increased interest in several aspects of life which he never cared about? Is he doing certain work that he never worked on before or is he eating food which he hated? Is he spending hours on his dressing and going to gym for workout so that he can lose some extra pounds? If all these are true, you husband or partner is deviating from the current relationship and is getting attached to someone else.

- Is your husband spending long hours over the phone and when you check the phone, you do not recognize the number? Is he spending time till late night on his laptop? These conditions can mean that he is working out a relationship which you are not aware of.

- Has his behavior become cruel lately? Is he keen on picking up fight with you on small matters which are really unimportant? Is he engaged in verbal abuse and has become impatient? If so, your relationship is in trouble and your husband has found a new person who can interest him in a number of ways which you are not able to fulfill.

- Changes in working area is yet another factor which will help you to ask, "is he cheating?" Well. It may happen that you husband or your partner has started coming up with excuses like increase in work pressure and hence he needs work till late hours or perhaps, his post work official meeting have increased or maybe, he is flying or driving more often to a different town for official meeting! All these can indicate that he is engaged in a secret relationship!

- Has he become self absorbed? Is he not worried about your requirements as well as the requirements of the family? Is he showing indifferent behavior against your relatives or neighbors? If any of these or all of these have the answer, "YES", you are in trouble. Your man is trying to break through the boundaries of the relationship between you and him and build up a new relationship somewhere else with someone else!

You have to stay vigilant about the behavioral changes of you partner or husband and make sure that you are taking steps which can save your relationship! So, if you find yourself caught by the question, "is he cheating?", you know what you need to look for!




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