10/16/11

Are You Suffering From A Sexless Marriage?

By Sarah Scott


How Can You Increase the Sex in Your Relationship?

A relationship without sex usually ends up feeling like you are living alongside a room mate. Many couples today are having a tough time connecting with their partners in a passionate and physical way. A sexless relationship makes you and your partner more likely to harbor negative emotions like resentment bitterness, and anger. These feelings also makes you more likely to infidelity in your relationship.

If your not happy about the absence of sex in your relationship, then check out the following reasons which explain why your relationship is lacking sexual intimacy.

For men, there are plenty of reasons explaining why they've lost interest or desire for their spouse.

These are the following reasons explaining why men are not wanting sex:

- - Sex has become boring just as your relationship has turned mundane and complacent
- -The passion has fizzled
- -No longer feeling turned on by his spouse
- -Has a low sex drive do to hormone changes or stress levels
- -He is finding gratification somewhere else

Many women's reason for lack of sex might be a little different. Women are emotion based and if they're not in the mood to get physically intimate, it's often due to how they are feeling. These are some examples of why a woman would possibly not be in the mood to get intimate.

- -Sex isn't as satisfying for her as it is with her husband
- -The romance and passion is gone in the relationship
- -Her husband let himself go and she no longer find her husband sexy
- -She is upset at her partner
- -The She is depressed

Ways to Increase the Passion in Your Relationship

The first thing you can do is open up the lines of communication with your spouse. When you are not talking about this issue, it can feel a bit like there's a giant elephant in the room. When you ignore that problem, it can make the both of you grow further apart over a period.

Sex can be a strong way to connect with your other half. There could be many of reasons explaining why your partner isn't feeling it. The most important thing is having the ability to comfortably address this issue. Ignoring this issue will only neglect your own needs , and you know what happens when your needs are neglected. Resentment builds up and bitterness can actually slowly kill a relationship.

When you and your other half talk about this fragile topic, you do not need to bruise their ego. Use "I" statements. "I" statements will feel less like of an attack and help you get your point across without instigating a fight. When you both talk about this, talk about what you both can do to increase more zeal in your relationship.

Are you and your partner spending sufficient time to cultivate your love and passion? Sometimes due to work and stress, sexual intimacy significantly decreases. Being able to talk about your absence of intimacy openly will help you and your partner figure out the very next step.




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