10/31/11

How to Get the Guy Back When He Wants Someone New

By Clay Andrews


Did your boyfriend ditch you?

I know that this can be an specially complicated thing to sort out.

Certainly, it doesn't make things any simpler when you still love him and he's already dating a new woman.

Now, let me explain you how to get the guy back without getting petty and getting caught up in a cat fight with his new girl.

The first thing you should know is that you can't do this well by seeing his new girlfriend as your enemy.

Though she is surely dating the guy you want to be with, it doesn't mean that you need to declare war on her. What are the odds that she's maybe just a typical girl who you could end up being friends with under the right events.

If you truly wanna know how to get the guy back, better focus on what you can control, yourself, rather than attacking this new woman. You actually wanna do your best and stay positive and helpful of their new relationship.

Anything other than this will make you seem to be immature and irrelevant. Don't concern yourself about the other woman.

In the first place, she's in a rebound relationship. Your ex-boyfriend still should take care of his own feelings from the breakup with you. Whether you like it or not, he jumped into a new relationship right away even without handling those feelings. It's just a matter of time before those sentiments begin to get worse and he's coerced to take an actual look at them.

Secondly, his new girlfriend is perhaps at least a bit unconfident about the history that you and him have together. Her jealousy probably burns at full force each time he sees you or talks with you.

Keep in mind the secret on how to get the guy back from the other woman is to be beneficial about their new relationship?

What do you think will happen if whenever he sees you, you're helpful and optimistic while his new girlfriend is jealous and trivial?

On top of all that, he still has unsolved issues from the breakup with you, and their new relationship most likely isn't going to last. The truth is because he'll be comparing you to his new girlfriend, he may break up with her and the obvious contrast between you and her may also get him to wanna take you back right away. That's, therefore, how to get the guy back if he's already dating someone else.

The key is to stay calm and collected no matter how you may feel on the inside.

This puts you in an optimistic light and makes you seem to be the better option when he compares you to his new girlfriend, which he unavoidably will do.




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