Have you been wondering how do I get back together with an ex-boyfriend? The response to that will depend on how long the two of you've been apart, the reason you broke up and who initiated the break up? These things will influence the method you should take.
In most cases you will find it easier to get him back if you broke up with him, but you weren't that rough when you did. Unfortunately, if he broke up with you it might be a little tougher to get him back, since if he wanted to come back he probably would have already.
Still, you never know so give it a try. Have a go at some of these tips to get him back:
1. Don't wallow, moan, cry, threaten, stalk, or beg. All this sort of thing is a big turn off. Remember, you are just trying to get him to come back to you not take out a restraining order!
2. Spend time with your family and friends. Above all, have fun. This may seem impossible, but remember everyone likes to be around a winner. Remind him of the fun loving woman he fell in love with. If you go out and have fun, word will soon get back to him and he may start to think he's missing out on something. I'm assuming you don't want to behave like a child and play games, so for that reason I'm telling you do not play the "I'm going to make you jealous so you take me back" game. Avoid doing that at all costs, it's not fair to the new guy and it's quite childish.
3. Give him plenty of space. Stop the 'accidentally bumping into him' right now. If you are always hanging around, not only will he never be able to miss seeing you, but it is likely he will get used to thinking of you as a back up plan. Not exactly the way you want him to think of you.
There you go, 3 simple tips to answer that question: how do I get back together with an ex-boyfriend?
In most cases you will find it easier to get him back if you broke up with him, but you weren't that rough when you did. Unfortunately, if he broke up with you it might be a little tougher to get him back, since if he wanted to come back he probably would have already.
Still, you never know so give it a try. Have a go at some of these tips to get him back:
1. Don't wallow, moan, cry, threaten, stalk, or beg. All this sort of thing is a big turn off. Remember, you are just trying to get him to come back to you not take out a restraining order!
2. Spend time with your family and friends. Above all, have fun. This may seem impossible, but remember everyone likes to be around a winner. Remind him of the fun loving woman he fell in love with. If you go out and have fun, word will soon get back to him and he may start to think he's missing out on something. I'm assuming you don't want to behave like a child and play games, so for that reason I'm telling you do not play the "I'm going to make you jealous so you take me back" game. Avoid doing that at all costs, it's not fair to the new guy and it's quite childish.
3. Give him plenty of space. Stop the 'accidentally bumping into him' right now. If you are always hanging around, not only will he never be able to miss seeing you, but it is likely he will get used to thinking of you as a back up plan. Not exactly the way you want him to think of you.
There you go, 3 simple tips to answer that question: how do I get back together with an ex-boyfriend?
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