11/15/11

Ideas On How to Flirt With Girls

By Chris Miller


Dating skills and relationship skills are not precisely alike. This means that having had girlfriends in the past can help you date women when you're suddenly single. Meeting women and flirting with them may become a challenge. First of all, your girlfriend (or your ex) will most likely see through your efforts to impress her. But techniques that seemed tacky in the past may work like a charm now.

Hence, now that you are in the dating scene, you must understand that there are some skills that are developed solely for the intention of flirting with girls. It doesn't matter if you have never had a girl friend or you're trying to find love again. If you know how to flirt, you can get any girl you want no matter what your relationship goals.

Here are the tips.

3 Suggestions on Flirting With Girls

1. Concentrate on Attraction

When we say attraction, it may seem like you really need to look like a model to pull it off. But not being attractive based on the prevalent principles of beauty is not necessary to generate powerful attraction. In actual fact, you've probably seen butt-ugly guys going off with beautiful girls and wondered what the guy could have done to hook up with a pretty girl.

The stage of attraction is making a girl feel emotionally connected with you. Banter is the best device to use when doing this. Great conversation skills can make her feel attracted to you.

2. Make Her Laugh

You don't have to worry about rejection when you make a girl smile and smile. Beautiful women always have guys hanging around them. They know they are attractive and have become immune to flattery. It takes a rare guy to turn these girls on using his sense of humor.

By using humor as a seduction tool, you can accomplish many things. To start with, her attention becomes yours a hundred percent. Second, you convey that you're used to being in such a discussion with pretty girls. You are different from most men who nervously try to hit on her. Some men act star struck around these women.

3. Bantering

Conversation is never monotonous if you know how to tease. Get over the small talk fast so you can begin flirting. Flirting should come spontaneously, even if it took you a long time to learn the methods. But the secret to effective flirting is no secret. You only need to do one thing: never take yourself too seriously. When you act tense around people, jokes will come out wrong. Be daring enough to tell jokes without worrying about her response.




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