11/12/11

Use Humor to Get Girls

By Chris Miller


You've heard it often in the past. Humor is the key to a lady's heart. It will never be difficult for you to get dates. You will be surrounded by all the women in any party you attend. So, what is keeping you from using laughter to seduce women?

But a humor is not an inherent thing. Some guys think of humor in terms of what they see other men doing. Let me tell you this: different men tell jokes differently. Most jokes sound hilarious only when the right individual is delivering them. Some men could make any tasteless joke seem humorous.

You cannot emulate the style of other guys when it comes to being amusing. You have to develop your own style. Copying how Seinfeld would do it isn't enough. If you don't have the fundamentals of being funny, then each and every joke would seem canned and unoriginal.

Listed below are some ideas to help you learn how to make girls laugh.

1. Your Funny Bone

If you take yourself too seriously, you won't be able to sharpen your sense of humor. Think of an awkward situation and find something amusing in it. If you are often angry, you take yourself too seriously. When you get laughed at in an easygoing manner, grin along. Bad jabs are different from lighthearted pranks. Don't take it personal when someone makes fun of you. If a person is really attempting to piss you off, then he's the one with a problem. Remember, things wouldn't affect you as much if you do not take them seriously.

One more good way to develop a sense of humor is to look at random funny clips. Funny video clips are all over the net so make sure that you check them out. You might learn the kind of comedy you appreciate. Doing this when you're feeling down or tense will relieve your anxiety.

2. Conventional Jokes

If the joke is canned, it's ok. As a matter of fact, you can build your material around canned jokes. Change up the joke a bit to give it a fresh spin. Watch how comedians infuse their temperament into jokes. It's your delivery that matters.

3. Correct Timing

Occasionally, gut feeling is the only thing you can depend on when it comes to telling a joke. You can tell a joke or prank a girl anytime, but timing still matters. Jokes are not the only things you can use. Tease her or use self-disparaging jokes. By doing this, you're telling her that it's ok for her to make fun of you too. When she understands that you're that sort of person, she will ease up and relax around you.




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