11/7/11

When to Put Aside Ego and When not to

By Alex Shant


Relationship is built with compromise. In fact, it is the main reason
why a certain relationship works. Sometimes, we even compromise things that we should have compromise and in the end we lose. This is the reason why there is a certain limitation for compromise. There should be boundaries set and thresholds that should be sensitive to.

The problem is that it is very difficult to decide if a certain thing
is worth your compromise or not. Because of your love for the person,
compromise can sometimes be your default response to certain things.
Actually, a certain situation is worth your compromise if it is
advantageous to the both of you. If one is not favoured, then the
compromise should stop. Here are certain situations where in
compromise are not an option.

When the man is a real jerk, he is not worth the compromise. If a man
only wants to do want he wants, and then you should never be with him.
You should never compromise with a jerk because this kind of guy will
literally eat you alive. He will slowly depreciate your ego to the
point when you do not want yourself anymore. Instead of compromising
with this jerk, look for a kind man that listens to you and tries to
do what you want.

Some people say that a woman should compromise even if a man cheats.
This is not true. Never be with a cheater. A cheating guy will always
cheat and cheat and cheat. He will never stop. It is actually like an
addiction. A sensation inside that is so addictive and this sensation
is called infatuation. When a man is an infatuation junkie, he will
flirt all he wants and will always apologize for his mistakes.

The bottom-line is that you should never be in a bad situation, Choose
situation that favours you.




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