12/8/11

Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back Advice for Ex-Girlfriends

By Curtis Weber


Did your boyfriend broke up with you but still you are hopeful that you two could still make things work? Don't sweat too much as there is still hope that you two could get back together. Another woman in your boyfriend's life is not reason enough to try these tested-and-proven ways to get your boyfriend back.

1 - Making your ex-boyfriend realize that you two are way better together than the one he's with now is the first step. This works majority of the time unless he no longer really has any feeling for you at all. You would know yourself if you've ever had your relationship with him on a serious level, then most probably there is still hope of lighting that old feelings back in him. Don't worry, as most of time, your ex-boyfriend still cares for you at this point.

2 - For a start, just be his friend. Keep conversations away from your break-up with him and just keep it casual. If you want to mend relationships, you can never make a mistake by being a good friend to the person. Once all the drama of the break up fades, he might start to realize that he still cares for you.

3 - It pays to throw in an attitude from time to time but also try to be sweet with him at times. The idea is to make him want you yet you give him that impression that it's not just about to happen in an instant. Just take things easy and let things happen as they are. Things happen for a reason though sometimes you just don't understand yet, so for now, just let things be. Don't forget the high spirits all throughout and just be positive.

4 - Know when to play hard to get and when to let off from time to time. Going out with friends will almost always stir up a little of jealousy and that would work great for you.

5 - Refrain from acting desperate. Acting desperate will just make things worse and you'll just be pushing him away more. Show him that even though it didn't work out, you are still well and that you are actually starting to move on with your life. By acting desperate, you're obviously sending a message to him that he can get you back anytime he wants, which just makes him not to want to exert effort at all.

6 - Casually bring up the fun memories you and him once had. This will bring back the old feelings which could sometimes make him realize a few things about what happened. Try to refrain from bringing up bad memories as this will not help at all in getting the relationship back.




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