2/28/12

How to Tell if She Wants You

By Chris Miller


Is it difficult reading the mind of the girl you have been spending your time with? You keep on asking yourself "does she want me". Her behavior may be interpreted as playing it cool or being coy. More guys have gone crazy and lost sleep over this than any other dilemma in dating. If you're in a slump, here i will discuss some tips on how to find out if she wants you.

Indicators to Look Out For

One giveaway that a girl is paying attention is if she gives you the top to toe stare. You know she is attracted if she keeps looking at you from head to foot and back. She could be taking in your appearance and wondering how you would look naked. Yes, girls are thinking the same things that guys think when they see a girl they're paying attention in.

One other thing to look for is the side look. A woman looks at a guy from the corner of her eye when she's acting coy. You may also notice her playing with her hair. It's not that a strand is out of place from her head. She's beginning to become aware of your presence near her. The same goes when a lady fixes her clothing and sits up straighter when you draw near.

Women show signs of attraction discretely. Touching may be as simple as patting your arm. She may pinch you gently when you say something that she thinks is hilarious. Touching is a fine way to articulate her emotions.

Verbal Signals

When she asks nosy questions, she's either a private investigator or she's interested in you. Prying questions include the very delicate ones like if you have a girlfriend or a spouse. Normally, a girl wouldn't ask if you have a girlfriend if she isn't attracted.

One indicator of awareness is giggling. It doesn't matter if she tells you she isn't available or anything like that, if she giggles when you tell her something funny, you got her where you want her. Even if she says she is not curious, her actions and her expressions tell you otherwise.

Following the First Meeting

Keeping in touch means there's something there you can pursue. The point here is, a woman could flake out after the initial meeting. You should keep yourself from calling her until she responds. How do you keep connected? Through texting, of course. Texting will never reveal your edginess, unlike a phone call.

Text her on the very first day and don't worry if she doesn't text back instantly. If she doesn't text back, it's not that you misread her indicators. It's just that she might have connected with someone else. In this instance, move on and find another woman to banter with.




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