2/27/12

Learn How to Get Her Back

By Chris Miller


When a girl suddenly acts cold, there may be some matters that you're not aware of. It's virtually impossible to actually know how to act so that you can make it up to the woman. A girl may take this opportunity to make the most of your weak spot and simply string you along. If you do not do anything, you will be named a jerk or worse.

The thought of having an ideal relationship may be what's making her act up. If you are not sharing the same ideals as far as commitment is concerned, she may feel like you're not taking her seriously. Is forcing yourself to change your mindset the right thing to do? Change is not necessary, particularly if you think you are really not prepared. But you will have to meet halfway somehow. Anyway, you know that there is no such thing as an ideal relationship, and she needs to see that, too.

Some men would tell you to move on, but you do not need to do that because there are many ways to make a girl like you again. So, is there a way to make a girl fall for you all over again?

3 Tips for Making Her Fall Again

1. Give Her Space

This may be a difficult thing to do because you don't know whether giving her space will make her miss you or make her get over you. Then again, a new start is necessary. The stress brought on by arguing habitually can be wearing her out. When she's ready, you will get an earful of what she thinks is off beam with both of you.

Don't put out the idea that you are breaking up. You know better. This is a game of "wait and see". When she gets her thoughts straightened out, she will tell you what she wants out of the relationship. You just have to accept that until she's ready, you may have to make do with sulking on her part. Never lose yourself when she goes away from you for a while. Give her space and do something else with your time.

2. Go Out on a Date

A great date after a big fight can be a good thing. When it comes to ambiance, the environment has very little to do with how you both feel. It helps if you have a romantic idea like a few scented candles and a nice dinner. You can manipulate the atmosphere to make her more at ease.

When choosing subjects for conversation, think of lighthearted and safe ones. If she's sulking, dodge the snide remarks and tease her. Negative provocation may come from her but make sure you don't react to it. If she continues to show aggression, tell her point blank that you are interested in something else other than fighting. If your plan is to alleviate the tension, you should never give in to her aggravation. Make sure she relaxes.

Go to a romantic place. You may have to bear it for a while if she's into things that you don't actually like, but just this once. She will comprehend the implications of having the date in a spot that she prefers.

3. Apologize Sincerely

Apologizing over and over yet half-heartedly is not effective. Saying sorry repeatedly makes you look desperate. You can apologize only once, but be sure that she feels your sincerity. Afterward, you do not have to apologize again. An admission of guilt that's sincere comes with a promise. Spill your heart in that one apology, and then the ball is back in her court.




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