3/28/12

The Advantages of Acting Clueless

By Alex Shant


There is a difference between a woman that doesn't know that a guy likes him and a woman that acts as if she doesn't know that a guy likes him in order to get his attention. This is called acting clueless to get the the most attracted person. Women do this by not making a big deal when a guys tries to do things that would make her feel special. Instead, the girl acts as if she is not the only one being treated special by the guy. Women also do this when they do not care about what the guys does when they see each other or when the guys says really kind and inspiring words. Instead, the girl treats him as if he is a friend as is being really clueless that the guy likes him.

Acting clueless and as if you do not care attracts guys very much. Most men like to women that are hard to get. They want women that do not hand down all their efforts just so the guy would like them. In other words, men like to experience a little difficulty in getting the girl rather than getting her right away.

Because of this, playing clueless is a must during the courting stage. The man that likes you will get confused if you like him back. This is a good thing because in the process of trying to find out if he has a chance with you he will try to get more and more details about you. Aside from this, you will retain your pride by not being too obvious that you like him back.

Girls that act this way usually have a 90% chance of getting the guys they want. However, they also need to give bits and bits of affirmations to the guys sometimes when the need arise. Take for instance if the man gives them something, they say "Thank you, you are so kind. I really like it. (and then mention his name)" The man will instantly feel that you like what he gave and will think of giving more things in the future.

On the other hand, what you said is a two way effect. He will think of getting something for you again and he will be happy to know that you he exists in your life since you know his name.




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