3/19/12

How do you know that you are more than friends?

By Alex Shant


There are no clear-cut signs that you have fallen in love with your friend. No love bug pops in to remind you that you are in love, or no caution sign that will pop up in your head telling you that you need to degrade your emotions. However sometimes it just bites you and you won't even find out until, your friend is married off with someone he or she hardly knows although you were the one, whom they always secretly dreamt about.

Don't let your supposedly happy love-story turn into a tragic love story. We are no heroes here. We are not here to make sacrifices. So find out if you are in love with your friend, before the cruel reminder rings and you can't even use the snooze button.

Once a wise person stated that girls and boys can never be 'just friends' forever. Well guess what, he wasn't lying. At some point in time, love will constantly make its grand entrance into your friendship. ● If you are spending more than 8 hours non-stop talking to them everyday, pouring your heart to them, trusting them with all your secrets, depending on their advice and cannot possibly imagine life without them, well breaking news: You are in love with them or they are in love with you.

● Have you ever dated someone while the two of you were friends? What was the reason of your breakup? What did your exes think about your friend? Did they ever feel that there was something between the two of you? If you are aware of this then maybe love hasn't eventually crawl in but since you're taking this into consideration, you are feeling something special for him/her.

● What do they think about the two of you? Do they often tease you together? If you answered yes to any of these questions, there is a big possibility that maybe the world isn't that blind the way you thought it was.

● Only if you are in love with someone, you wouldn't mind if they interfered with your decisions. While you were reading through this article, if there was one person who was constantly playing on your mind, well you are surely in love with them.

If you realize that you are in love with a friend, first find out if they also feel the same way about you. If the feelings are mutual, only a foolish person would waste more time. Speak out and take your friendship to a new level.




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