Leaving a relationship is always tough. This is still true even if you feel as if the person you were with was not meant to be with you. Certain signs like character indifferences and circumstantial concerns are just some of the things that make you feel that a person is really not right for you. Still, you wonder why you get hurt when the relationship ended. Then you start to assess if your intuition about the relationship is something worth deeming on. Guess what. There is a way to know if your ex is worth it or not?
One is to go back to the time when you started doubting the person. Try to asses why you felt unsure about the relationship. Try to revisit the time when you expected something from the person that he was not able to achieve. Is it because the person you were with was not that genuine about his actions? Moments like romantic dates that he failed to attend; or when he missed to send flowers during your most awaited anniversaries are some of the things that you can evaluate on.
Second is to ask yourself if you were just forcing yourself to like that person. Perhaps you were compelled to change your attitude for the person you like. Was there ever a time when you tried to lie about your likes in order to match your nature to the one you love?
Third is for you to ask yourself if you only liked the person because you felt that he can save you from any mess you are in. Is the guy rich enough to free you from financial dilemma? Or is the person you are in a relationship with someone who is "square" enough to make you feel secure about your life?
Think about the questions you have about your ex and struggle to assess if he really is the person you want to be with forever. A simple gut feel is worth going through because it can bail you out from the possibility of a more dysfunctional existence with a person that isn't really significant to your peaceful and successful person development.
One is to go back to the time when you started doubting the person. Try to asses why you felt unsure about the relationship. Try to revisit the time when you expected something from the person that he was not able to achieve. Is it because the person you were with was not that genuine about his actions? Moments like romantic dates that he failed to attend; or when he missed to send flowers during your most awaited anniversaries are some of the things that you can evaluate on.
Second is to ask yourself if you were just forcing yourself to like that person. Perhaps you were compelled to change your attitude for the person you like. Was there ever a time when you tried to lie about your likes in order to match your nature to the one you love?
Third is for you to ask yourself if you only liked the person because you felt that he can save you from any mess you are in. Is the guy rich enough to free you from financial dilemma? Or is the person you are in a relationship with someone who is "square" enough to make you feel secure about your life?
Think about the questions you have about your ex and struggle to assess if he really is the person you want to be with forever. A simple gut feel is worth going through because it can bail you out from the possibility of a more dysfunctional existence with a person that isn't really significant to your peaceful and successful person development.
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