4/1/12

Dealing with a Partner's Mother

By Alex Shant


There are two kinds of mother in law; the one that likes you and the one that doesn't. Mostly all mothers in laws do not like the partners of their sons because of jealousy. They want their sons all to themselves or they are not ready to give their sons to another woman. What should you do so that you and your mother in law to be will have a wonderful relationship? How will you make both ends happy and prevent a stressful relationship with your partner and his mother?

First of all, you have to know his mother personally. Try to gain some time to learn more about his mother. Try hard to have a talking relationship with her. Once you have this relationship, you will not have a hard time doing things that pleases her because you know her already.

Share him to her. Tell your mother in law to have some time with his son ahead. She will be shock to know that you want her to have some quality time with his son even if she did not say it yet. This way, she will realize that you are not selfish. You will gain his love once you do this and she will definitely want to share your husband to you as a sign of reciprocation.

Give him monthly tokens or gifts. There is magic in gift giving. It is true. Give him small tokens like a plate you saw in India or a scarf you purchased in Singapore. Little but meaningful tokens will make him feel love and special.

Lastly, invite her to every party. In fact, make her feel like she organize it but telling her you want to hold a party for your husband. Getting her involve is the best way to winning her heart.




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