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Defining Love and Relationships

By Alex Shant


Our instinctual self calls us to connect and celebrate our special relationship on a much deeper level by letting go of precondition and conditioned inhibitions. In this level, the act of letting go allows us to experience each moments with profanity, awareness and most specifically honesty. In this particular stage of our emotion, we may realized that the time has come for us to communicate on a level of existence that raises us high above the lower mental plains where dysfunctional behaviours operate and up into our heart energy.

To understand and to make this shift, it is vital that we wake up and become conscious that our relationship problems arise from our past unresolved emotional issues.

Unresolved emotions are so harmful to the body's mind system, that they block vital energy, which then becomes a barrier to self-understanding, personal development, conscious awareness and our spiritual evolution.These stored negative emotions we carry are like luggage unpacking and repacking on a semi regular basis. The emotions we experience are set like stone into the very cells of our body mind system. Because of this, these emotional baggage becomes a major factor in relationship breakdowns.

When we fall in love, you see in your partner your own creative potential, what you perceive is a mirror reflection of yourself. This mirror serves a purpose. Once you are aware of this you can use it as reference to learn about yourself. Furthermore, what is lacking within you will show back also. If you are unaware of what is happening, your relationship can suffer because you are blocked by a lack of understanding and your own personal emotional luggage or issues.The good thing is, no one has to be locked into inhibitions that come from past emotional wounds, that will be the key to a successful relationship and self development.

When you make a conscious choice to detached and view yourself from a higher vantage point rather than being bogged down in the details, you will discover a much deeper understanding of yourself, and your feelings and behaviours. Your partners aw well as with your relationships with others are there to help you learn about you. You can gain so much about yourself through your relationships. Even the painful and uncomfortable experiences hold pearls of wisdom. The drama's played out in relationships are shadow types of behaviour fascinating to watch, when you realize what is going on.




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