Do you think that possibly something is rotten in the state of your marriage? Are you beginning to feel that you are not the Most Important Person in the life of your spouse? Do you want to find out for certain? You may not really want to know, but if you do, you can look for signs that your spouse is having an affair.
1. They don't call you anymore just to say, I love you?
2. He or she smells too good when they get home from work - late.
3. You never have sex (or anything else) together anymore.
4. When you ask, "How are you?" your spouse says "Nyah."
5. Your spouse is always smiling... until they see you.
While none of these things as a single sign does not mean that your spouse is cheating, one or more together is a big hint. Maybe now your spouse cannot be bothered about you anymore. When you call him, if you get his voicemail instead of him or her, then they certainly are busy. So you need to dig deeper.
Anyone who has been working all day, no matter what their job, cannot possibly end up looking as pristine or smelling as sweetly as they did when starting out. Unless, of course, they have had occasion to "spiff up" before coming home. If you know that this has been their habit all along, well and good. However, combined with a non-response to your greeting or questions about their day, you just have to wonder!
Now, we all know that a passionate sex life is ideal but sadly not often a reality. Nevertheless, if your sex life has been at least adequate or better, and it suddenly seems to have died a premature death, it is quite possible that instead of dying it has simply changed partners. Not a fail-safe clue, but something to think about - and if you are thinking the worst, you may be right!
In just about any circumstances, when your marital partner seems to be just delighted with life in general, except when spending time or talking with you, all the warning bells should go off! Your spouse is telling you something whether they mean to or not. Most of these signs that your spouse is having an affair can be easily interpreted, if you take the time to look and listen.
1. They don't call you anymore just to say, I love you?
2. He or she smells too good when they get home from work - late.
3. You never have sex (or anything else) together anymore.
4. When you ask, "How are you?" your spouse says "Nyah."
5. Your spouse is always smiling... until they see you.
While none of these things as a single sign does not mean that your spouse is cheating, one or more together is a big hint. Maybe now your spouse cannot be bothered about you anymore. When you call him, if you get his voicemail instead of him or her, then they certainly are busy. So you need to dig deeper.
Anyone who has been working all day, no matter what their job, cannot possibly end up looking as pristine or smelling as sweetly as they did when starting out. Unless, of course, they have had occasion to "spiff up" before coming home. If you know that this has been their habit all along, well and good. However, combined with a non-response to your greeting or questions about their day, you just have to wonder!
Now, we all know that a passionate sex life is ideal but sadly not often a reality. Nevertheless, if your sex life has been at least adequate or better, and it suddenly seems to have died a premature death, it is quite possible that instead of dying it has simply changed partners. Not a fail-safe clue, but something to think about - and if you are thinking the worst, you may be right!
In just about any circumstances, when your marital partner seems to be just delighted with life in general, except when spending time or talking with you, all the warning bells should go off! Your spouse is telling you something whether they mean to or not. Most of these signs that your spouse is having an affair can be easily interpreted, if you take the time to look and listen.
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