4/2/12

Reading between the lines: Why subtext develops romance

By Alex Shant


Romance makes a man. It is through romance that men and women are inspired to do things they do not usually do. Subtext, on the other hand, makes a romance. It is because of subtext that men and women are attracted to. The idea of not knowing for sure what is happening or what words meant is naturally attractive to humans. This longing for definition stems from our forefathers when we invented various things and we seek to define the supernatural as God.

Subtext or any actions with various meanings create confusing in one persons mind. Take for instance, if a man asks a woman if he enjoyed the date and the women answered with just a smile, the smile itself create confusion on the man's end. He will think that the woman did not enjoy his company.

He may also think that the woman enjoyed it but he will mostly think of the negative perspective since most undefined circumstances are assumed negative on the mind. He may do two things, stop dating the girl or try to date him once more and this time make the date more enjoyable than the last. Men usually do the second option which is why they always make the second date more fun that the first one.

Another example is when the man dates a woman and does not contact her after that date. Then he contacts her after several days by texting her and making her feel very special. The highs and lows of energy in a man create confusion on the woman's end because women naturally want to be certain that the guy really likes her before she reciprocates the situation. By doing such a thing like this, the man may end up losing the woman of his dreams or may make the women run after him just to seek confirmation if he truly likes her.

Romance and subtext are like fraternal twins. They are intertwined but they are different. With the right subtext for romance, relationships or dating can be fun. With the right romance for a subtext, playing the dating roles can be as addicting and could create a hills to a plateau relationship.




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