4/3/12

The Sad Fact of Dating a Married Man

By Alex Shant


The title says it all. Dating a married man is dangerous by default. In fact danger is an understatement of what comes about when you date a man that already has his own family of his own. Not only will you be put to embarrassment by his family, but you will also be put to shame by your own family. The craziest thing that you could experience is being tormented by guilt of breaking a family that could have been perfect without your presence. His children will be compromised and his wife will have trust issues concerning you.

Another danger of dating a married man is the risk of getting too emotionally attached. Humans by nature want to have something that they cannot get. It is our nature to always want to explore beyond boundaries. The only problem is that if we cannot get hold of ourselves when we decide to play around with emotions.

The real problem occurs if we decide to nurse our feelings more by and making it something tangible towards the person that is already married. When this happens, desire for security comes along. When this Aside from that happens, inevitably we will want to have the man for ourselves even if we know that that idea is complete insanity.

As a result, we will make an effort to do our best to get a hold of the man. We will research about his family, his children his wife and form rationales about why he decided to date other girls. Then, we try to rationalize the logic that the the reason why he searched for other women is because his wife is very boring, not that pretty or lacks the fun that he had when he was still single. These reasons make us believe false hopes that we are better than his wife when in fact all there is are false hopes expectations.

The real reason why men date other women even if they are married is because of human nature's urge to find attraction and affirmation that they are still attractive. Therefore, never believe that you are better than his wife if dating a married when a married man comes flirting with you man comes in your life. Instead, set aside of that risky circumstance and find other men that will love you fully and not partially.




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