Deception is one of the most painful things a person could do to his partner. It is unforgivable. It causes major damage in the relationship especially major trust issues.
Deception can mean a lot of things. They do not have to be because of infidelity. Although, most deception is because of cheating, the fact is that cheating is only the minutest forms of deceit in a relationship. The worst is when a person tricks his partner into something related to money.
Money can be considered one of the most important things in life. Without it, people cannot do things that they should and need to do. When a person is in a relationship, it is understood that they have an agreement with regards to financial matters. Take for instance, who pays for the food that they eat. The deeper financial agreements in couples come when they decide to share a part of what they earn to a bank account. Shared savings is actually a good thing. With shared accounts, partners can make sure that they have the finances to go about with their relationship and even with their marriage in the future.
However, the problem occurs when one partner tries to break the agreement. An example of this happened with Mila and Fred who have been together for 7 years. They make sure that they have savings in the bank. Mila earns better than Fred so she saves 70% to their shared account while Fred shares 30%.
For the longest time, there were no disagreements. Mila still has more savings than Fred. The problem occurred when Mila saw the bank account and was shocked that half of their money was withdrawn from the bank. Mila ask Fred about the withdrawal and to her surprise Fred just said that he did not know. One week past, while Mila was about to go home, she decided to go out with her friends at the bar. To her surprise, she saw Fred with a younger woman. Fred acted like he had a lot of money to spend. Fred had actually been using their savings for his other woman. To how Fred withdrawn the money without Mila's consent given the fact of bank's strict transaction processes is a mystery.
Deception can mean a lot of things. They do not have to be because of infidelity. Although, most deception is because of cheating, the fact is that cheating is only the minutest forms of deceit in a relationship. The worst is when a person tricks his partner into something related to money.
Money can be considered one of the most important things in life. Without it, people cannot do things that they should and need to do. When a person is in a relationship, it is understood that they have an agreement with regards to financial matters. Take for instance, who pays for the food that they eat. The deeper financial agreements in couples come when they decide to share a part of what they earn to a bank account. Shared savings is actually a good thing. With shared accounts, partners can make sure that they have the finances to go about with their relationship and even with their marriage in the future.
However, the problem occurs when one partner tries to break the agreement. An example of this happened with Mila and Fred who have been together for 7 years. They make sure that they have savings in the bank. Mila earns better than Fred so she saves 70% to their shared account while Fred shares 30%.
For the longest time, there were no disagreements. Mila still has more savings than Fred. The problem occurred when Mila saw the bank account and was shocked that half of their money was withdrawn from the bank. Mila ask Fred about the withdrawal and to her surprise Fred just said that he did not know. One week past, while Mila was about to go home, she decided to go out with her friends at the bar. To her surprise, she saw Fred with a younger woman. Fred acted like he had a lot of money to spend. Fred had actually been using their savings for his other woman. To how Fred withdrawn the money without Mila's consent given the fact of bank's strict transaction processes is a mystery.
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