2/22/11

An Article Regarding Relationships: Harmonizing Romance And Friendship

By Lester C. Carrasco


We all know that as a couple certain decisions should be made together and they should put everything in a personal level. But, there are certainly things that should not be overly done by couples that makes them annoying to others especially to people who are close to them like family and friends.

When couples begin to make decision, it come off as something that they have decided for themselves and not taking others into consideration. This throws off the whole dynamics of the friendship they build out of their relationship. If they were to consider the decision of others, they should consult their friends.

Another is when you invite your friend, he brings her girlfriend with him at all times. This can be fun at first but when she brings your friend to one corner and you do not get time with your friend, this can become an issue between your friends.

If you find yourself watching your friend and his girlfriend kissing and groping each other, it is time that you put some senses into them and tell them that they should not be doing that around your friends as it may seem inappropriate to your single friends.

It might come off as funny but when you are in a group of friends and one of them brings their partner, you all want to move fast but when that happens, those two will begin to walk slowly and really walk slowly that others begin to complain whether or not they can still beat the ticking clock.

When you have your couple friend telling you that the only way you can find happiness is by being with someone, tell them that there are other things that make you happy other than getting it on with someone. That will surely make them stop pressuring you.

Ever had that group conversation where your friends are on the couch and a friend of yours is talking to his girlfriend and they giggle with their own little joke that nobody finds funny except it is a bit annoying? Add that to this list.

When your best bud becomes tied down to the girl of his dreams, expect to disappear from his desk or his weekly football practice at the field. Most of the time, people who are bound to a relationship will have problems with their schedule and your friendship simply drifts away.




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