2/21/11

Being Nice to Women Brings You Dates

By Mike Morton


You have a girlfriend now, after months of pursuing and steady dating. You worked hard at making a good impression, and might have even transformed yourself into a real nice guy. Good behavior doesn't stop the moment she becomes your girlfriend. Both of you might even get married. But you have to remember that good behavior goes on, even well into married life.

Respect continues even if you're now committed to each other. When you're with other guys talking about relationship woes, don't talk bad about your girlfriend. Tell them about her good qualities, how you shower her with compliments. No name-calling or trash talking.

When one of you feels you need to discuss something private, go to a quiet corner if you're in a public place, or wait until you're inside the house. There's nothing worse than seeing a couple fighting in public for all to hear.

Keep your eyes on your girl. Sure, you see that hot, sexy woman walk nearby, but remember that you've committed to relationship. Be attentive and show that she's the only woman in your world.

Your days of flirting are over, so the sooner you accept this, the better. Sit beside her when you're in the company other women friends. Don't let your gaze stray. She'll value your loyalty.

Be generous with your compliments. Shower her with gifts. Never fail to remember special occasions. Greet her on special days, even on ordinary days. She'll be in love with your for the rest of her days if you shower her with attention and with your thoughtful ways.

Also, there's no excuse that you should forget your gentlemanly ways too, as this is probably one of the main reasons she got attracted to you. Carry her bags for her, and make opening doors a habit, and hold the umbrella for her when it rains. You'll always be her hero if you keep at it.

The point is you have to want to be the best man you could be, and that includes treating your lady properly. Your actions reflect who you are, so treat her well, and be the best guy you can be.




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