3/17/11

How Approaching Women Can Help You Get Confidence

By Alex Decoto


I know you are interested in how to approach women more effectively. You will see how.

Well, this is not an easy question. I can't just give you a number. It goes deeper than that. This journey cannot be calculated with time. I can only say that you will need to approach at least a thousand women. That's actually an over optimistic statement. You are going to have to approach thousands of women to see what's really going on here.

Let's get to a more important issue. Most men that are successful with women will advise you to approach many women in clubs. This is a good strategy when you think about it. Here is the problem with it though. Few men stress the importance of going to a club alone and sober. If you are the typical guy that has gone to clubs mostly drunk and in groups, you might of gotten chills when you heard about this proposal. But, it's true. You are going to improve the most only if you approach many women in clubs alone and sober. I mean, any guy can go drunk to a club with ten of his male friends and mindlessly approach women. Most guys do just that.

Here is an easier solution. Yes, you don't need to work like a slave to be successful with women. If you don't like the idea that you have to go to a club to get good, you can avoid clubs all together. Yes, your heard me right. You can go and meet women in normal every day situations. I can't really tell you whether that is harder or easier. I can only tell you that both models build confidence. Going to a club sober and alone will increase your confidence. Going to a mall and approaching women will also help you get good.

Good luck!




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