I want to talk about always having more women in your life. Before you start accusing me of promiscuity, let me explain what I mean.
Men and women are so oppositely different regarding intimacy choices. A woman can be depressed and decide that she wants some that day. She doesn't have any guys on the side, but she wants to hookup that day. Well, all she has to do is go to a club and she will have so many men to CHOOSE from. If she wanted, she could have hookup with several men that night. I am not saying that all women will do that. I am just saying that all of them can do that if they wanted to. By the way, a woman doesn't even have to be attractive. She can look very repelling, and she will still have choices.
Let's compare this situation to the average man.
The average guy will have to work very hard to get women into bed. He will have to cater to women, approach women, flirt with many women, only to have the mere chance of something intimate happening. I know men who have been going to clubs for years, but they still NEVER had even a single one night stand, even though they only went to clubs for that reason. I know a lot of adult celibate men. They would do anything just to have one intimate moment with even one single woman, even if only one time. On the other hand, I know only a few adult women who are celibate. They are not celibate because they can't get any; they choose to be celibate by being picky.
Your girlfriend can find some the same day she breaks up with you. You will not be able to do that. That is why you must never put all of your focus on one woman only. Maybe you can't get close to the female level of abundance, but at least be better than the average guy.
Men and women are so oppositely different regarding intimacy choices. A woman can be depressed and decide that she wants some that day. She doesn't have any guys on the side, but she wants to hookup that day. Well, all she has to do is go to a club and she will have so many men to CHOOSE from. If she wanted, she could have hookup with several men that night. I am not saying that all women will do that. I am just saying that all of them can do that if they wanted to. By the way, a woman doesn't even have to be attractive. She can look very repelling, and she will still have choices.
Let's compare this situation to the average man.
The average guy will have to work very hard to get women into bed. He will have to cater to women, approach women, flirt with many women, only to have the mere chance of something intimate happening. I know men who have been going to clubs for years, but they still NEVER had even a single one night stand, even though they only went to clubs for that reason. I know a lot of adult celibate men. They would do anything just to have one intimate moment with even one single woman, even if only one time. On the other hand, I know only a few adult women who are celibate. They are not celibate because they can't get any; they choose to be celibate by being picky.
Your girlfriend can find some the same day she breaks up with you. You will not be able to do that. That is why you must never put all of your focus on one woman only. Maybe you can't get close to the female level of abundance, but at least be better than the average guy.
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