3/24/11

How To Handle Break Up

By Pete Diwali


Break ups are always hard. While they are more difficult to the one on the receiving end, they are still difficult for the one ending the relationship. Although when the initial breakup occurs you may be feeling that you are never going to get over it, time is always going to heal all wounds. Here are some tips on how to handle break up.

It is a good idea to get in touch with your closest friends first of all. Think of people who you really care about and who really care about you and make plans to see all of them over the coming days and weeks. Now is certainly not a good time to sit around on your own and think about things.

Make sure that you vent your emotions when you need to. Good friends and family members will certainly allow you to cry on their shoulder and should be willing to listen to all of your rants and raves.

You need to give yourself lots of time to go through the grieving process. When a close relationship breaks down it is very similar to actually suffering a loss akin to the death of someone close to you. Never be ashamed of the feelings that you are feeling and give yourself time to go through all of the emotions that are running through your body.

Start dating again. This is certainly a great idea and will help you to forget your ex much more quickly. In fact, when meeting new people you may start to see that your recent relationship simply didn't work at all and you will get a new perspective on life. Be careful, however, not to start up a rebound relationship that is only going to hurt someone else.

Be positive and look forward. Analyse all of the good parts of your previous relationship and make sure that you take these forward into your new ones.




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