Here are a few easy to follow steps you can use to meet women that makes the process of meeting women fun and easy!
Is your fear keeping you from taking the actions you need to meet women, and causing you to feel lonely and helpless?
You may be under the false assumption that meeting women is supposed to come naturally to you. After all - we're men! Aren't we just "supposed" to know how to do this naturally?
Wrong.
Despite what you might think and what others may tell you, the fact is that us men are not born already knowing how to naturally meet and attract women. (Believe me, I wish that WAS the case, but its not, unfortunately.)
Knowing how to meet women is something you LEARN, not something you're "born with."
This is a SKILL. Skills don't come naturally, they have to be learned!
So if you don't know how to meet women, know this - there is NOTHING wrong with you! You just haven't gotten enough experience to make meeting women a comfortable experience yet.
Unfortunately, there are many guys out there who's fear of meeting women keeps them home alone on Friday night, and most of them will NEVER do what's necessary to overcome that fear and meet women.
If this sounds like you, then I have news for you: You are actually TRAINING yourself to NOT approach women! You're giving yourself reasons to give into your fears and not take any action.
Bottom line: You are practicing FAILURE.
Those fears often come from experiences men suffered in junior high or middle school, when they saw stuff like this happen on TV, and they think it actually applies to their own life.
Even if you didn't have the best experiences as you were developing, it's not too late to take control of your love life and overcome your irrational fears about meeting women. Just because you weren't an "early bloomer," doesn't mean you still can't become a real ladies man!
What you need to start doing right now is re-learn how to talk to women, and you'll have to be willing to re-examine your current beliefs and attitudes that might be holding you back from success and change them to make meeting women easier.
Understandably, this is difficult for most guys to do. It's one thing to say "I want to meet women," but the hard part is taking action and DOING it! You need to ask yourself how badly do you want to improve, and if you're willing to do the work.
Don't be one of those guys who let's fear keep him from meeting the type of woman he's always dreamed about.
If you see a girl you want to meet - say SOMETHING. Even if you don't know what to say, just take a chance.
Ask her for directions. Ask for her opinion on something. Playfully tease her about something she's wearing or something she's doing.
Quickly settle on the what to say - don't worry about the words you're going to use - and go over there and talk to her. Don't let more than three seconds pass by. Make the decision to act and follow through. (It will help you in the future if you memorize some canned material that matches your personality.)
You can be a winner even if you don't win the girl over. Obviously, if you get her phone number or a date with her later on, you've won something big! But if you only get a girl to smile whom you thought was out of your league, you've also won big. And you'll also win just by knowing that you're not going to wonder later on what would have happened if you had actually tried to meet that girl.
Is your fear keeping you from taking the actions you need to meet women, and causing you to feel lonely and helpless?
You may be under the false assumption that meeting women is supposed to come naturally to you. After all - we're men! Aren't we just "supposed" to know how to do this naturally?
Wrong.
Despite what you might think and what others may tell you, the fact is that us men are not born already knowing how to naturally meet and attract women. (Believe me, I wish that WAS the case, but its not, unfortunately.)
Knowing how to meet women is something you LEARN, not something you're "born with."
This is a SKILL. Skills don't come naturally, they have to be learned!
So if you don't know how to meet women, know this - there is NOTHING wrong with you! You just haven't gotten enough experience to make meeting women a comfortable experience yet.
Unfortunately, there are many guys out there who's fear of meeting women keeps them home alone on Friday night, and most of them will NEVER do what's necessary to overcome that fear and meet women.
If this sounds like you, then I have news for you: You are actually TRAINING yourself to NOT approach women! You're giving yourself reasons to give into your fears and not take any action.
Bottom line: You are practicing FAILURE.
Those fears often come from experiences men suffered in junior high or middle school, when they saw stuff like this happen on TV, and they think it actually applies to their own life.
Even if you didn't have the best experiences as you were developing, it's not too late to take control of your love life and overcome your irrational fears about meeting women. Just because you weren't an "early bloomer," doesn't mean you still can't become a real ladies man!
What you need to start doing right now is re-learn how to talk to women, and you'll have to be willing to re-examine your current beliefs and attitudes that might be holding you back from success and change them to make meeting women easier.
Understandably, this is difficult for most guys to do. It's one thing to say "I want to meet women," but the hard part is taking action and DOING it! You need to ask yourself how badly do you want to improve, and if you're willing to do the work.
Don't be one of those guys who let's fear keep him from meeting the type of woman he's always dreamed about.
If you see a girl you want to meet - say SOMETHING. Even if you don't know what to say, just take a chance.
Ask her for directions. Ask for her opinion on something. Playfully tease her about something she's wearing or something she's doing.
Quickly settle on the what to say - don't worry about the words you're going to use - and go over there and talk to her. Don't let more than three seconds pass by. Make the decision to act and follow through. (It will help you in the future if you memorize some canned material that matches your personality.)
You can be a winner even if you don't win the girl over. Obviously, if you get her phone number or a date with her later on, you've won something big! But if you only get a girl to smile whom you thought was out of your league, you've also won big. And you'll also win just by knowing that you're not going to wonder later on what would have happened if you had actually tried to meet that girl.
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