3/20/11

Understand This Before Going In your Future Date

By Joseph Matthews


Have you considered that dinner and then a movie is only one aspect of dating a woman?

You go out and doing things with the woman while you get to know her.

Well, what if I told you that you had the completely WRONG idea about dating?

Here is a small list of some of the more common mistakes a man can make while dating a woman.

Mistake #1: Guys use dates as opportunities to "Impress" women.

Often men might feel like they have something to prove while on a date, to get the woman to like them. They seem to think that taking a woman to some fancy and memorable place and bragging about their accomplishments makes them seem important.

Mistake #2: You can buy the love of a woman.

This is not true and is a very bad idea, since many women are not concerned about the amount of money you spend on a date. There is no amount of money or any expensive item you can buy that will get a woman interested in you if there is no mutual attraction.

Mistake #3: Activities Mean Nothing!

Going out and doing things with someone does not mean as much as you think it might. Simply going to on dates does not encourage a woman's interest for you. You cannot create romantic interest by just spending time together.

Mistake #4: Men become boring!

A date with no spark of chemistry is boring. Although many men become nervous while on dates, they often interrupt themselves by becoming boring. They often talk about their routines while displaying little to none of their distinct personality. This is going through the motions with hopes of not messing things up.

What does dating a woman mean?

It is simply really, dating builds attractions by strengthening emotional connections and building comfort.

See, it doesn't matter where you go, or how much money you spend. All that matters is how you're able to connect to the woman you're with and what you can make her feel about you.

This is the key to why many men can go on a cheap date with a woman, while sweeping her off her feet, while other men may overspend on creative dating and get absolutely nowhere with the woman.

You should completely focus on how you can increase your emotional connection with the woman you date.

Talk about your shared interests. Talk about your passions. Try and figure out what her hopes and dreams are.

Learn to rephrase your questions, rather than wanting to know where she works, ask her some interesting and fun questions, such as If you could do anything you wish, what would you wish to do?

Above all, you should just have fun!

Crack jokes - even if they're not good. Have fun. Steer the conversation toward subjects she finds interesting. Be curious about who she is.

Above all, do not be to shy to bring up romance.

Some men fear bringing up the subject of romance while out on a date, however, to build sexual tension while magnifying the attraction, you must.

Joke about sex. Flirt with her. Be a little wicked. Girls like this, and if you DON'T do it, you won't be able to build enough attraction to take things to the next level.




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