4/2/11

Acting Like a Angry Guy Won't Get You More Dates

By Mike Morton


There's a lot of information out there on the do's and don'ts of dating, and for sure you've heard firsthand accounts from friend. There are also a lot of men and women out there who will gladly tell you about their dating successes and horror stories. Amidst all these, some dating basics remain the same.

Have an idea on where you'd like to take your date. You don't want to get caught unprepared if your date agrees to go out with you and asks where you'll take her. Plan out how your date night will happen and where you're having dinner. Think of how much you're willing to spend too. Will you go all out in a fancy hotel, or just have dinner in a cozy cafe?

Now that you have a plan of sorts, approach her and strike up a conversation. Think about common topics like hobbies, an upcoming movie, or some burning issue that's in the news headlines. This way, she'll warm up to the conversation. Put in some humor too, as it's a great icebreaker.

Ask her the question, but time it right.Be confident when you walk up to her. Make sure she's not busy, or talking to someone, or in a hurry. Sometimes, timing's all that matters. Don't let your nerves get in the way. Start with casual conversation, some open-ended questions so you get to talk a bit. As her casually, and always have eye contact.

When date night's finally happening, don't forget your manners. Opening doors for women never grows old. Do this when she gets out from your car, and when you enter the restaurant. Women will always appreciate gentlemanly behavior, specially on a first date. Act your best. Get her to feel she's the only woman for you.

Complement acting good with looking good. Both combinations are a sure winner for a memorable date. Take a good shower, brush your teeth, and put on good-smelling cologne, but not too much. Crisp suits are fine if you're going to a business meeting. Casual clothes will do, as long as they're clean and neatly pressed.

If you muster up enough courage to ask her and she says 'no,' don't take it personally. She might really be busy, might have a boyfriend already, or she's not interested to go out with you. There are other single girls out there for you to get to know.

Going on a date isn't as hard as it looks. Follow these basics, and you'll gain confidence and will soon get the girl of your dreams.




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