4/2/11

Acting Like a Jerk Will Not Get You Dates

By Mike Morton


Women are complex creatures, and men often bemoan that they're driven to lunacy because of women. A guy will often tell his best male buddy that women are beyond comprehension. But men will always be in pursuit of women. A girl's complexity will just add to her allure, and one lovestruck, a guy will he helpless to resist her charms.

The mystery that women poses are much too complicated to be narrowed down to a single book of guidelines. It is as difficult as having to be the best person a guy could ever be for and because of his partner.

But with love, everything takes a turn for change. It disregards rational behavior and establishes unions where there is none. It is a matchmaker for the mismatched and can make someone change into a different person. It dwells on the peculiarities of people and is able to make you feel extremely high or extremely low kinds of emotions.

At the end of the day, love affects the male as much it does to the women. Love enables men to learn the art of chivalry --- where despite the femininity of the design or the load of the bag, the guy carries it for the girl, where he opens the door for her without having to ask for it, and where he ensures her safety without having to be told. It all comes with the recognition that every moment spent together are memories to be cherished even up to the next lifetime.

Love can transform the toughest and most unfeeling of men, as women have always lamented that guys are insensitive brutes who have yet to outgrow their maternal ties. Faults, shortcomings and weaknesses are overlooked in the name of this most passionate of emotions. Even if many a musician, writer or painter has made love as a basis for inspired work, this emotion, in its truest form, can be very elusive.

In the end, every man has a woman who made possible the transformation from the primitive, instinctive and egocentric to a much renewed personality. In the same manner that it takes a man for a woman to come out of her shell and shimmer like a refined and glossed gem.

Love can jump-start two people into forming a relationship that will hopefully last them a lifetime. But when love is not enough, despite commitment, hard work, loyalty and faithfulness, then man and woman should make decision. This feeling can propel them to forgive and move on, or have the guy and the girl go their separate ways.

There is no stronger force on earth that can transform a man to his better self than having his better half. Woman, much like love, then, is the greatest mystery ever.




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