4/8/11

Guide to Picking Up Women Effortlessly

By Chase Chandler


You can always put in more effort, if you are not having that much success in picking up women. A good way to start is to have the guts to succeed with women.

Just how do you get yourself those guts? One can learn a few things that can make a whole lot of difference in the quest of being successful with women.

One general rule is that you should never approach a woman without first making eye to eye contact with her. Make sure that the woman you're eyeing can see you coming towards her so that you don't take her by surprise.

Keep a good eye-to-eye contact all the time. This doesn't mean though that you will not need to look away at every appropriate intervals. It is important that you also look away so that she will not feel uncomfortable.

A very good way to start a conversation with a girl you are interested in, is by giving a sincere smile and saying "Hi!"--this will surely get her attracted to you. Being a little bit flirty with your gaze will surely get some sparks going on.

When asking questions, ask those that require her to give you more than just a simple "yes" or "no" response. An example of a close-ended question would be asking her if she likes chocolate milk shake.

So when you actually ask--ask about what a perfect life is for her and ask her why. Give her every time to be able to explain her point of view. You should really allow her to tell her piece, otherwise you will miss out on some important information.

Lastly, touching can be an effective tool if used appropriately in the right situation and at the right time. After establishing some degree of connection with her, you can use some strategically employed touches, to heighten her senses and to see how the she would respond.

An example would be: pointing out an interesting piece of jewelry or her watch perhaps while you touch her hand or arm, and proceed by asking her about it. Make your touch casual and normal"and be sure not to show hints of hesitation.

You have learned some practical ideas here that will serve as a guide to picking up women. You only have to study these well and apply them when approaching women. You will be surprised that your success rates with women are way beyond your usual.




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