4/8/11

What should I do if my girlfriend gets jealous?

By Steve Steiner


It's not unusual for the green eyes monster to show up at some point in a relationship. Jealousy can undoubtedly cause immaturity, detachment as well as insecurity in a person. Admitting to having jealous feelings can be difficult. Jealousy can be a big issue with some, but not with others. There are people who can't control their jealous nature, even if they try. A Jealous relationship can experience some detachment issues.

To avoid a break up, you have to be sensitive to her feelings. I know it's difficult being with someone who is jealous. Don't run instead of dealing with her jealousy. It's important to have patients and sensitivity toward her. Getting through a jealous episode can strengthen the relationship A lot of guy want to know who to deal with a constantly jealous girlfriend. Following are some tips to help with this.

My Girlfriend is Jealous-What Do I do? Tip #1: Find out what is causing her jealous feelings A lot of women are insecure and this causes their jealousy. It's possible she believes you can find someone better and dump her. Helping her build her self-esteem make her feel better about herself. Compliment her often. Compliment her hair or her outfits. Women appreciate even the little things, like doing the dishes or laundry. Doing so can help with her self-esteem and allow her to see that you do appreciate her.

My Girlfriend is Jealous-What Do I do? Tip #2: Try not to look at other women, and don't flirt with them. Is it natural for you to flirt with the opposite sex? Sometimes a guy can't help It, but you have to do it for her sake. Most women don't want their man paying attention to other women. If you are caught looking at another girl just turn to her and say, "Man, you are much prettier than her."

My Girlfriend is Jealous-What Do I do? Tip #3: Spending more time with her will help ease her jealousy. Does she feel intimated by your co-workers and friends. Make it a point to introduce her to them and include her in all activities, unless it a guy night. If you include her, she'll understand that these people are only friends. This will help cure her jealousy, and make your relationship better. This will ease her worries and prove that even though you may have friends of the opposite sex, she had nothing to worry about. It's not unusual for women to feel threatened when their man has a good friend of the opposite sex. Make sure it's clear to her that you and the other female are just friends.

My Girlfriend is Jealous-What Do I do? Tip #4: Make sure to let her know she is the only one for you, she needs to know that. It might be tough at first, but once she realizes her heart is safe, her jealousy will disappear. Letting her know she is the only one you want, this will help with her insecurities. Let her know you love her, so she can lose her discomfort.

My Girlfriend is Jealous-What Do I do? Tip #5: She may check up on you a lot, and it may get annoying, but deal with it by always taking her calls. She will feel at ease once you've picked up the phone or send her a text back. Ignoring her will make more problems. Girls scrutinize everything you do, so she'll just spend the entire day coming bad scenarios as to why you didn't return her call.

There may be trust issues if she is always feeling jealous. If the jealousy is habitual, then you might consider professional help. It's possible she needs professional help for her issues. Issues such as these will put your relationship to a test, but if you can overcome it, you can overcome anything.




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