6/23/11

Cheating in Relationships

By Kristofer Stutler


Did you know that those who have experienced cheating in their relationship will likely experience it again? It is unbelievable but it is true. Anyone would think that being hurt once would be enough. But for many, it is not quite true.

There are lots of reasons why infidelity happens more than once on some relationships. People are very complicated and things are not always what they seem to be.

Oftentimes, proofs are needed by women who has a feeling that their husbands have affairs. This is often to satisfy and harden her resolve. Usually, a woman does not know what to do if ever she get hold of the proof.

For some men, a lot of women is a symbol of status, ego and esteem. Even when they are committed, they want to boost their pride by having affairs. The loss of love, support and affection as a result of a thrill occurs too late.

In a guy's mind, cheating is wrong but oftentimes they are ruled by their egos and temptation.

However, a relationship's vulnerability to infidelity comes down to three factors:

ONE - People's choice in a partner or spouse are not in coherence with what they need or what their spouse can offer. In other words, both of them together is not compatible and lost emotional intimacy.

TWO - People fail to make their relationships top priority by putting time and energy into them that they need. That makes them vulnerable and open to infidelity.

THREE - People do not understand the issues that lead to infidelity and cheating in the first place. They also cannot see their part in the failure of the relationship. For many people, it is easier to blame someone for things than to understand.

Do you think this is familiar? If yes, it is time to have your attention. Everyone knows you do not need another heartache and grief that comes with cheating.




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