8/8/11

Realizing When To End Asking

By Alyssa Villame


Having a husband is one of the gratifications in life. Not only does it secure your life with a relationship, it actually gives you a sense of control toward a life of full bliss that others may not be able to have. Mostly true when you have a brilliant partner, getting married may have been the most perfect thing that happened to your life.

But having a consistent company means also making a lot of mistakes. Your self-assurance mostly extends to you personal needs that you think your husband can give. This makes you ask for things more than your practically requires. While you may feel multiple momentary satisfactions, it would not last especially if your husband ends up divorcing you for that reasons.

Going for luxurious things that only satisfy your eye are just one of the manifestations of asking. Evaluate what you are asking for and ask yourself if you can live without it. Did you just like it out of jealousy because your neighbor has one? Or are you asking too much that it would hurt the budget.

It is obvious to spot these things but it is hard to stop from doing it. Like a drug, some luxury turns into vices that only make you constantly crave, as if nothing else would satisfy your cravings. Getting an expensive bag with an amount equivalent to two months of electric bills, for example, is really out of the question.

Unless you are a genie who can easily wish for materials things with just a instant, there isn't really any reason to ask for it even if you are a multi-millionaire. Money is not sand that lands in your floor without you laboring for it. Even if you have all the dollars, you and your partner will still need to make efforts to make sure that finances stays with you.




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