Many singles have taken to online dating like ducks take to water because it does work or, at minimum, it can do. Women are, in general, terrified of meeting a man that they have been chatting to online.
They have all heard the scary things that can happen and, I must say that they have the right to be careful. That's not only wise but very important. So what's a nice guy supposed to do? You aren't a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for a nice girl for you.
You must be patient above all else. Do not press her for private information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don't attempt to rush her into meeting you face-to-face. She will only think that you are desperate or a pervert. Be patient, patient, patient!.
Be completely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and then there you are back at square one.
A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just of your head. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn't just see your head, would she?
Once the discussion has been started meeting in the flesh for the first time, suggest that you should meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she might bring a friend with her, if she wants to.
After all, you have nothing to hide, have you? And everything to gain. You've told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. So, the only thing left to do is to is make her feel safe meeting you.
They have all heard the scary things that can happen and, I must say that they have the right to be careful. That's not only wise but very important. So what's a nice guy supposed to do? You aren't a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for a nice girl for you.
You must be patient above all else. Do not press her for private information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don't attempt to rush her into meeting you face-to-face. She will only think that you are desperate or a pervert. Be patient, patient, patient!.
Be completely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and then there you are back at square one.
A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just of your head. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn't just see your head, would she?
Once the discussion has been started meeting in the flesh for the first time, suggest that you should meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she might bring a friend with her, if she wants to.
After all, you have nothing to hide, have you? And everything to gain. You've told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. So, the only thing left to do is to is make her feel safe meeting you.
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