Dating a nagger is a no-no. They are usual parasites of happiness. They eat your time, happiness and they make you paranoid. They keep on asking you where you are and what you are doing. \
They keep on remind you things you have to do and things you should never do. But what can you do if the person you really like is a nagger? Of course, you have to find ways in order for him to change or find ways to manipulate him into being a better person.
Consult him personally. The most essential step in dealing with a person like this is to tell him personally that he is being a nagger. He might not know that he is. Tell him you are uncomfortable with him always asking your whereabouts. Tell him you want space even if you are together. Most importantly, tell him that the best way for you relationship to work is by letting you be and trusting you.
Put him on your shoes. If still he doesn't listen to you despite the consolation, put him in your shoes by doing what he is doing to you. Try this for a week or so but never for the entire month as it may cause a major fight on your end and his. Ask him his whereabouts and tell him not to do things you do not like. When he says he doesn't like what you are doing, tell him that that is exactly what you are doing to him.
Conclude without a fight. Once he realizes his mistake and starts telling you that he will change, accept it. He may not do it right away or may still be a little fuzzy on his personality revisions but he will gradually change taking into mind what you did earlier.
They keep on remind you things you have to do and things you should never do. But what can you do if the person you really like is a nagger? Of course, you have to find ways in order for him to change or find ways to manipulate him into being a better person.
Consult him personally. The most essential step in dealing with a person like this is to tell him personally that he is being a nagger. He might not know that he is. Tell him you are uncomfortable with him always asking your whereabouts. Tell him you want space even if you are together. Most importantly, tell him that the best way for you relationship to work is by letting you be and trusting you.
Put him on your shoes. If still he doesn't listen to you despite the consolation, put him in your shoes by doing what he is doing to you. Try this for a week or so but never for the entire month as it may cause a major fight on your end and his. Ask him his whereabouts and tell him not to do things you do not like. When he says he doesn't like what you are doing, tell him that that is exactly what you are doing to him.
Conclude without a fight. Once he realizes his mistake and starts telling you that he will change, accept it. He may not do it right away or may still be a little fuzzy on his personality revisions but he will gradually change taking into mind what you did earlier.
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