4/23/12

Steps to Repair Relationship Trouble

By David Webb


If you are in a functional relationship, then you have relationship trouble! There? I revealed it! It might not have reached a critical stage yet, nevertheless it is there! And that doesn?t mean that you or your better half is an awful person or that you each have found the incorrect partner. It basically means that there are aspects in your life that are not functioning at this time. It is important to realise that having relationship trouble does not mean you're headed toward a breakup.

Here are 1 or 2 signs of relationship trouble to come:

Red Flag 1: Your other half constantly talks about their ex-spouse or girlfriend/partner. They are sending you signals that you must learn to read. Your better half is scouting for your attention in all the wrong methods but if you read them the right ways , you can draw their heart nearer to yours.

Red Flag 2: Your partner appears disagreeable with all that you do or say - you cannot satisfy them or do anything right.

Red Flag 3: Your better half doesn't seem to find time for you. It could be work, outside interests, past-times or 100 other excuses. Your relationship has become 2 ships passing one another in the night.

There's a natural ebb and flow to every relationship. Here are some things you should know that will aid in forestalling the relationship from becoming worse and start moving in a positive direction.

Step 1: Commit to finding out the source of the their discontent and fixing it. Start by looking within you first and do not look to make a few changes in your other half. Trying hard to get them to see the changes they need to make will never work and will only make things worse.

Step 2: Do the things that you used to do earlier in the relationship. Be more attentive, considerate and loving in your words and your actions.

Step 3: Let the past be the past. Pardon and forget. Communicate effectively, with love and tenderness, where you need the relationship to go from here.

Stronger unions among partners are made when both meet halfway and can identify the warning indicators of relationship trouble, and immediately handle these worries efficiently.




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